Thursday, February 9, 2012

The Interracial Phenomenon


To me, the picture above is one of the hottest images I've seen. A hot blonde sex kitten going down on a well endowed black man drives me into a special land of erotic fantasy. Those types of images put me in the mood instantly and some of my most intense masturbation sessions have come from watching those types of interracial videos or looking at the pictures. One of my biggest fantasies is for my wife to do a porn scene with Sean Michaels or Mr. Marcus. I wouldn't even have to be there as long as I could watch the video afterwards. So there is no question about my love for interracial sex involving black men and white women. But I still don't know why.

The overwhelming majority of the cuckold porn industry centers on black men having sex with the white wife of a cuckold husband. So I am definitely not alone. But I will say that a lot of the stuff out there is what I perceive as negatively stereotypical. For example, you've got series such as 'Cum Eating Cuckolds' or 'Cuckold Sessions' which I will admit I can get off on by watching some of the interracial sex scenes. But I have to get past the parts I don't particularly enjoy. The way the wife spends most of her time berating the cuckold seems like she's not even interested in the sex. The way she almost ignores the guy she's fucking makes me feel as if the white couple just borrowed this guy because he's black and are using him for nothing more than to satisfy the white husband's fantasy. If I am watching porn, I want there to be chemistry and passion between the people fucking. Truth be told, I'd rather watch any sort of interracial scene before watching a "cuckold" interracial scene.

Some people say the reason they like IR porn is because of the contrast in skin color. Some say it is like a work of art. I can understand that angle as well. I do admit an interest in seeing contrasting personalities get together sexually. So there could possibly be, for me, a subconcious attraction to the contrast in colors between two people joining as one. But why black men and white women specifically?

When I had my Hustler mag as a teenager, there were interracial pictures involving white men with black women as well as the black man/white woman stuff. I was intrigued with both types, maybe because it was very taboo. Growing up in suburban America and being raised by the influence of baby boomers who themselves had been raised in the days of segregation, interracial relationships were considered taboo no matter if I knew in my heart that all people were created equal and should be treated as such. At any rate, both sets of images were erotic to me, but the pictures of the white women either fucking or sucking black cock did something different for me than the white male/black female pics. It was definitely not clear at that time, though, that black male/white female sex was going to evolve into a much hotter form of erotica for me later on.

Around my senior year in high school, I was dating a girl who I really liked. But as a bumbling teenager with little confidence, I never even got far enough to make out with her. Perhaps I wasn't reading the signs or just wasn't aggressive enough, but she made me feel as if it was going to take a lot more to get in her pants. So I took my time and played it safe. But gradually, she would be less and less available. She became too busy to even talk on the phone. Finally, we broke up. I found out a couple days later that she had been seeing some black guy behind my back for months. I denied that I even cared and told myself that I was better off without that tramp. But within six months, I was masturbating to the thought of them together. As years went by, I grew more and more fond of the thought of black men and white women having sex, and masturbated to it like any other of my fantasies. Then the internet came and the endless supply of IR content became a mainstay in my masturbation arsenal until my wife ultimately took ownership of my orgasms. Now I can only watch and get hornier.

If you asked me right now why I suppose I love IR porn, my initial gut reaction is that I love seeing people tear down the boundaries of taboo. But it makes me wonder if I prefer the black man/white woman version more because of my submissive kink. My theory stems from a primal pre-mating ritual about choosing partners. If I see an attractive woman, there is a chance she may find me attractive. She may think I'm strong enough and capable enough. But if I see an attractive woman and she is with a black guy, she chooses someone I cannot be. Therefore, as she chooses him, I feel less of a man than he is. And being submissive, that is a turn on.

Although I wonder if my IR fetish is based solely on a submissive tendency to eroticize the act of being left out while the woman I want chooses another man or if it is just about breaking taboos, it could easily be nothing more than the contrast of their skin. Or it could be turning a somewhat disheartening event in my past into a fetish. Or it could even be some deep seateded racial guilt I don't know about. I have no idea. But it is there just like my fetish for being cuckolded and the mysterious foot fetish that I have. Things that may never be answered.

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  1. my Wife and i have been living in a Female-Led Marriage for a little over three years...And has been cuckolding me for about that long as well...Recently Q (my Wife) has taken on Her first black lover (at least while we have been married) Q is a beautiful blonde "sex-kitten" as you say...And ironically...the above photo is the one She used to, to give me an idea, of what Her lover's cock looked like...Longer...and much thicker than mine. Race has nothing to do with who My wife chooses to go to bed with...but the reality of being cuckolded by my Wife...and knowing that Her latest is a well endowed black man...really enforces the feeling of being Her little submissive husband!

    And by the way...all this time She has never let me watch Her with Her lovers (except for Her girlfriend)...But She says that soon...it will be Her black lover that i will be "made" to watch as She sucks his big cock!...But...She still says i am not ready to witness Her fucking another guy...and i have to trust Her judgment on this...And what choice do i really have?

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    1. k- It must be quite a rush living out the fantasy that we have about that. I am also in the situation you are in when it comes to watching your wife. Hopefully soon.

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  2. junior - This is easily the most well-written, thoughtful thing I've read about interracial sex. Ever. Thank you for posting it.

    I'm a white guy, and there's one reason that IR appeals to me (other than those you described). As a white guy, there is more direct way for her to say, "Hey, hubby, this guy I'm fucking is REALLY not you. I'm having sex with a guy who couldn't look LESS like you!" If you're a white guy, you can't watch her with a black man and pretend in your mind that he is you. You have to own up to the fact that she's being pleasured by someone who is decidedly not you. From a submissive standpoint, I think that sends a pretty hot message...

    What do you think?

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    1. Wow...now that is a direction i never looked at it from...and it does send a definite message to this submissive husband!

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    2. I agree completely. That was along the lines of the point I was trying to make about the selection process, but I had trouble conveying the point about a black man being the furthest thing from what I am, at least on an appearance standpoint. Good work!

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  3. As a recently new cuckholdress (brown woman), I am intrigued by this IR fantasy. I am primarily attracted to white men and my current cuck is white. He has asked me I am going to have sex with a black guy and I don't think I will. For me, it's not about white/black, etc what gets me off. It's about being the woman and being in charge and in control of my sexuality. I'm saddened that cuckholding porn has turned into a fetish within a fetish and would love seeing more 1) Black cuckholdresses and 2) White men as bulls. Maybe it's just me but this aspect of cucking is a bit off-putting.

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    1. I couldn't agree more that when it comes to any type of relationship, terms of color are the least important thing. That's why I struggle with the reasoning behind my fetish.

      It sure is amazing with the amount of variety in genres of porn, I couldn't direct you to a single source which has black cuckoldress with white bull porn. That is one I'd like to see as well.

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  4. My wife and I discuss/fantasize involving another male from time to time, but it has not happened yet (and may never). I fantasize about her playing with a much younger male, kind of a "Stifler's mom" fantasy (although we're not that old, lol). She enjoys that idea too. I guess that Totaldiscord's post is what turns me on: her being with someone that is markedly different than me, and someone I cannot be (younger, blonde, better endowed, etc.). I am indifferent about the racial aspect. The fact that she could sleep with and dominate someone half her age is a real turnon.

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    1. My wife isn't really into the whole black bull aspect either, but has said it wouldn't matter if he was black or not, she would have sex with anyone who turns her on. Interracial is definitely not a requisite in our cufkolding adventures either. But yes, I do like the comment from totaldiscord as well.

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  5. Hi junior,

    Totaldiscord has hit on a very good point here. But I think there are many reasons why this fetish works. All of them are about your SO breaking taboos.

    In our case, we've never had a "Black Only" goal yet that idea excites me. Em is from SoCal and is quite open to races but as time has gone on and, given our experiences, there is a strong preference in favor of Black Men. When Em is masturbating or when I am serving her orally, she has confided to me that her fantasies are almost always about her and Black Men. Fortunately, her current lover, Darius, is Black and enjoys IR, too.

    Best,

    scott
    Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

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