Tuesday, November 1, 2011

When you have to put the kinky games to the side

It has been awhile since I updated. Besides being a little busy, there was something else that changed the situation I left you with on the last post. My wife and I got into a serious argument. I won't go into the details, but it was so serious that the Femdom thing had to be put on hold. We have since reconciled and have no hard feelings towards each other.

Every marriage is different, but I think a good all marriages need to focus on the important things when times are tough. I may be consumed with the idea that I live to please my wife in any submissive way possible, but rough times like the one we went through prove that our kinky sexual adventures are just games we play in the grand scheme of things. So after a week of tension between us, things got progressively better until we had that talk which really settled things. That is when the makeup sex came into play.

I knew that I could not portray the submissive bitch boy who left her wanting a little more if I was to have real makeup sex. It was going to be difficult since my orgasms had been rationed, but I knew that she needed me to step up and be a man for her. What I lacked in stamina, I made up for with my fingers and overall sexual prowess. I turned her around and I worked my fingers like a pornstar's cock and she really loved it. She even took to my slapping her ass and pulling her hair. She came extremely hard. Then I buried my own dick in and fucked until I exploded. She was really satisfied and made sure I knew how great it had been. We did it again later that day. I still hadn't gained my stamina back since it was still one orgasm for me in two weeks, But we had a lot of fun with it, and it seemed to bring us very close again as a couple.

This is obviously not for all couples. There are 24/7 Femdom couples that don't consider their roles in the marriage just a game. But I think the majority of married couples who practice this dynamic do have to put the "extras" on the back burner when they really need each other.

I'm not sure how long our games will be on hold. She may want me to be a man for her for quite some time, or things may get kinky really soon. But I will try to keep the blog fresh with more of my thoughts no matter what.

2 comments:

  1. I think that no matte what happens, it's still a partnership and people need to be able to turn off certain things when the shit hits the fan. :P

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  2. Good story and example of how things can be more important and "real" than our fun games. Glad things got better for you two.. good luck!

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